this one’s for the ladies.
now, i’m not one to give away any of my secrets, but perhaps it’s time for a refresher in relationship department?
i have had an [almost absurd] number of talks lately with women who, in one way or another, seem to have lost themselves within their relationships. women who consider themselves strong and independent, yet somehow are left without the real inclination (or perhaps, the nerve) to check-in with her well-being in the looooove department.
like i said – been there, done that, got the fuckin postcard. over it! why would you allow this? it ends in disaster, every time. i haven’t yet put my finger on what it is about women that allows this odd imbalance of power so frequently. some girls are simply so consumed with the idea of finding love that it somehow becomes awarded with a power that can drastically distort reality.
my advice? stop thinking as a we; but rather an i, with care and regard for the guy you love.
your opinions, your beliefs, your passions and your way of looking at the world are your own, and odds are your partner’s will be different. fuck, let’s hope they are! love is about respecting how the other person feels, and receiving the same in return. not apologizing for the things that helped to shape who you are. or worse, forgetting about them. fuck that shit.
honestly girlies…you’re better than that.